Confidence will attract – sometimes lots of attraction and sometimes resentment.
Those less confident are likely to be more resentful, not always, but most have experienced resentment on the part of those less capable and aware of their lack around those who are confident. Many men feel the need to project confidence – to be a man! The only problem with this is, when the attracted gets close, the chinks, the cracks in the facade become obvious.
Real confidence does not emanate jealousy, insecurity or hostility. Real confidence has no need to criticize to feel great.
 
   Lack of confidence causes so many issues in relationships, be it love, work, or any other.
Getting along with others can be difficult without confidence. Suspecting the worst of others or always finding fault demonstrates not much confidence. Real confidence attracts great, good people, not pretentious fawners. When it comes down to it, people are attracted to confident partners who come in all shapes and sizes. Confidence is sexy!
 
   Now those tough boys, pretend tough boys, who swagger are rarely confident. They feel if they move or look a certain way, they will attract women. They do. But those women will soon find out that there’s no real confidence. In order for these fake fellows to feel good, someone needs to feel bad. It won't be them but those close to them, like girlfriends. Just like women, men are attracted by confidence. It is sexy, magnetic, alluring. Both sexes are attracted by confidence. Being the real deal is another thing. Feeling good about yourself is the inner guide to confidence. Long term attractions will not happen when the confidence is not real. Chronic anger, jealousy, hostility, suspicion are not the signs of a confident, balanced person.
 
   Attraction between the sexes has always been based on the confidence you exude or not. Confident people exude a great energy that the fakers cannot project long term because it’s only a facade. “Fake it until you make it” is a common saying. Fake it while you WORK on making it. Be grateful for who you are. Explore your talents, passions and abilities, learned and unlearned. Be grateful to be you and appreciate others. That is the best way to appreciate others, to be happy to be you.
 
   There are always things you wish you could change about yourself. That's being human. However, concentrate on the best of you, eliminate what you don't like about yourself if it involves moods or being ungenerous. “Accentuate the positive” as the old song says. Be positive, see life as a miracle, an adventure, exciting. Feel lucky to have a roof, friends, job, and a life of so many possibilities. Believe that anything is possible and anything will be. Laugh often. We love you all for trying and being the best you can be.

We are here, of course, never left so much turmoil, so much of it deliberately orchestrated as this latest demonstration will yield.

This is not a few wing-nuts who were terribly organized, not, this was a deliberate attempt to de-stabilize a country not falling into line with what they were told to do. It’s a good thing to know what is right and good and kind – those puppeteers want to control many. Most leaders to follow the agenda of culling the population – a big push to quell to rebels among the world – results will be disastrous if the rebels don’t rebel against tyranny.

That is the time to be a rebel. There are powers that want all the money with none of the people – ways to get that are through armament and then wars – made a boatload of money and then kill those who have been sold the goods or drugs – drugs are expensive, bad air, bad water, bad food causes bad health – bad health equals lots of drugs bought and sold – of course that also increases the drug users (legal or not) choices of dying. Can you not notice deaths per year from war, from drugs – all orchestrated – wars are planned and initiated – bring the power in the hands of the few – quiet all dissenters. Keep fear out in front to immolate the rebels who smell a rat.

Paris is one big rat – who gains with this manipulated insurrection. The real people are not involved so there will be more rules, more restrictions, more clamping down so that the average citizen is afraid to think for herself.
The biggest way is to keep people fearful – so easy to be manipulated that pretty soon no one knows what her heart is telling her and will go along with the rest of the sheep being herded for slaughter.

Follow your heart, quiet your mind, listen to you. You know what’s best for you. Strangers do not. You will always know what’s best for you but not if you are disconnected – all of you are one – connected. There is no them or we – all of you need to follow your heart and help each other to be less afraid – “no fear”. Stop chronic news watching. Pay attention – these puppeteers are like magicians. “Look over here” and you look but miss the trick – you don’t notice why.

Who gets to win? Who makes the money? A common saying is “Follow the money”. It’s the powerfully rich who have the most to gain. The poor have no power.

Listen to yourselves without fear.

Ask us for help we are always here – waiting, eagerly waiting to help. You be the best you can.